Wednesday, September 23, 2015
Two weeks and one day ago, we met this little lady for the first time. When the doctor handed her to me, she locked her eyes onto mine and clutched my finger. I fell in love harder than I ever thought possible in that moment.
The past 15 days have been measured in hours between feedings, too many diaper changes to count, and taking in her newborn glow.
There have been tears, both hers and mine, but the smiles and cuddles outweigh them.
At times I worry that I'll break her somehow, so I clutch her tighter. When she sleeps longer than I expect, I watch her little chest move up and down to make sure she's ok.
I've become a sentimental sap whenever my mom comes over, because I can't believe that I was once this tiny and that someday Everly will be my age, perhaps with her own little baby, crying about the same passage of time.
I'm sleepy, but she is such a sweet baby. I know that while these first few weeks are tough, they won't last forever and I should treasure the magic of these moments.
Two weeks ago, our world was turned upside down in the best possible way. I can remember our lives before she was here, but I can't imagine a future without her.
She is the love of our lives, and I'm so thankful that I get to be her mom.
Monday, September 14, 2015
Thursday, September 3, 2015
We FINALLY finished the nursery! As I sat in the rocker the other day as Wade and I looked around the room, we wondered if it looked like this room was completed in a few weekends. Because we knew the truth--that this room was a work of love over the past several months. I still can't believe how far it has come, and I love how eclectic yet cohesive it is.
You may remember what this room looked like before. Wade had set up camp in this room with his massive collection of video games. It took a little bit of prodding for him to move the games out of this room, and I still can't believe the transformation.
Every little project we did in this room seemed to take an inordinate amount of time, but it was all worth it in the end. I love all the little special touches that add an element of whimsy and fun to this room without making it too baby-ish.
After researching a few different kinds of boards (magnetic and chalkboard), I decided to make this felt board. Felt sticks to felt and flannel, so I hot glued a piece of peach flannel to a foam board and then cut out felt letters. A great time saver here is just to buy the self stick felt letters and then cut a border to stick them to. This way you can add a bit of color to your letters, but it won't take you a ton of time to cut out. Plus, these felt letters seem more baby friendly. I'll let you know how it holds up over time.
The thing I most love about this room is all the little things that have special meanings. These vintage watercolor Winnie-the-Pooh paintings were given to me by my sister this past Easter. She found them in a resale shop, and I became a blubbering mess when she gave them to me. I love the classic Pooh books and wanted to incorporate them somehow into the room without going overboard. I think this is just perfect.
Meg is very wise (and sweet) and knew we needed a Miss Maisy, too, so she gave us that adorable pink bunny:)
Another special gift was this handmade quilt from my best friend. She lives in Seattle, and I had briefly shared my color scheme for the room, so I couldn't believe how well all the colors matched the room! I guess she knows me pretty well. I can't imagine tackling a project that big, and am still in awe at how beautiful it is. (Thank you, Kate!!)
I couldn't have done all this cute decorating without my mom! She sewed up a storm these past few months, making the window seat cover, recovering the glider, helping paint everything from the room to the dresser, and even making adorable baby leggings and headbands for little Roo. In addition to all of that, she made that beautiful blanket draped across the crib. She's made us all blankets, and I know that little Roo will treasure this one from her Gigi.
Everything except the crib was bought second hand. My mom found the dresser/changing table at the Salvation Army. It was painted black, and I had a hard time seeing the diamond in the rough. At least she and Wade did, though, because painting it coral and adding shiny brass handles transformed this piece into such a beautiful addition to the room. We painted the entire dresser using a $5 paint sample. Also, since I couldn't find the perfect paint swatch, I brought in the pillow that is on the window seat and had Ace Hardware scan it. The resulting color is a perfect blend of peach and coral.
I actually bought the bookcase and window seat toy chest before we were even pregnant. I saw them while browsing in a resale shop with my sister and mom and fell in love. Wade and I went back the next day to pick them up. They actually were already painted this blue gray.
The glider we found at a garage sale hosted by a friend. My mom and I scoured all the fabric stores for the perfect fabric to recover it with. We loved the yellow Nate Berkus fabric we found at Joann, but I wanted something blue/gray with texture to tone it down.
I found the perfect solution as I was strolling Target one day and stumbled upon these curtain panels (also by Nate Berkus--he did it again:). The material is fairly thick, so I'm hoping it will hold up well.
I love all the detail on the dresser. Perfect for a little girl.
My mom searched high and low for a kangaroo for Roo. I can't believe she found this mama and baby roo:)
I made the mobile using a wooden embroidery hoop and wrapping it with embroidery thread. Adding some pom pom trim and fake flowers brightened it up and added the perfect pop of color to that corner.
Have you heard of Lucy Darling? If not, then check her out! She has the most adorable prints and monthly baby stickers in her shop. I got the first year book and monthly baby stickers from my aunt and cousins and can't wait to start using them. And Meg gave me a set of fun closet dividers.
I had a lot of fun personalizing the bookcase. The fake cacti are from a DIY I posted about earlier. The lovely music box was given to me by my grandpa when I was a little girl, and I'm so thankful that my parents could fix it up and get it working again for Roo to enjoy.
Man, it took what seemed like forever to get this shelf up. Apparently the room is a bit crooked. It looks great, though, and is the perfect place to store all of the headbands and bows that I'm going to force Roo to wear:) I've been busy making all her headbands and flower crowns and can't wait for her to wear them. The little headband tree is actually a bottle drying accessory that I spray painted gold and stuck in a piece of foam covered in moss. I would have posted a DIY for it, but I wasn't sure how it would turn our and did it late one night. I turned out great and will be a nice storage idea.
The magnetic cork board was another find from Target. We took out the black foam underside and painted it white. I really like how you can use magnets or push pins to hang things.
I made the flower "E" (hint, hint as to a name) from a cardboard letter from Hobby Lobby by painting it gold and hot gluing fake flowers to it. I'm excited to actually put some real pictures into those frames soon. Definitely one from our maternity shoot.
After reading about them on Pinterest, I bought drawer organizers from Ikea. I was annoyed when I put them together and found that they were too tall for my drawers. I flubbed when I checked the dimensions of the packaging instead of the actual organizer. All was not lost, though. I simply cut each side of the boxes down a bit and folded them over, securing the sides with hot glue. Worked like a charm and now I have no excused not to stay organized. Right?!
Thank you for letting me walk you around the nursery. It's my favorite space in the house for sure. Just imagine me glued to that rocker in another week or so:)
Monday, August 31, 2015
Throughout this pregnancy I've been flip flopping about getting maternity photos taken. I had a few of the bump and me that had turned out ok, and Wade and I had one of us that my dad took. After seeing the breathtaking photography of Laura Morsman on her website, though, I knew that I wanted something more special to capture this fleeting and incredibly precious time in our lives.
I still didn't know what to expect, but all my worries subsided when Laura walked up to us in the park last week, amid the glow of the setting sun, and introduced herself. You know when you first meet someone and instantly like them and their positive outlook on life? That's how I felt when I met Laura. She made me feel comfortable in front of the camera (which isn't easy) and even got Wade to hop in for a few. We talked about movies we liked and how Austin is different (and the same) compared to Kansas City. It felt like we were spending the hour with a good friend who just happened to also be an amazing photographer.
At one point when Wade and I were looking at each other during a photograph, I started getting teary. It suddenly struck me that we were about to be a family of 3 in just a few weeks, and I thought about the long and windy road we had taken to get here. I credit this special moment to Laura, because she got us out of our shells and was able to translate our emotion into every photograph.
I can't imagine not having these photos and am having a hard time deciding which ones to print out to frame. Laura is currently based in Austin, TX, but is planning to move back to Kansas City this year (yay!). KC friends--that means she's available to capture all your special memories. Laura also has options available for traveling to you no matter where you are.
Since I've been going on and on about Laura, I thought it only fitting to actually introduce you guys to her and let her fill you in on a little more about herself. So without further ado, here's Laura!
Kari: You mention on your website that your photography business grew out of your love of connecting with people and telling their stories through images. (I love that!) Was there a specific moment when you thought to yourself, "yeah, I could really turn my passion into a business?"
Laura: Totally. I consistently get the "what is your favorite subject to photograph" question a lot, and for me hands down it is kids, and fashion, it always has been. The two combined is absolutely magical to me and that is when I started styling my own photo shoots that centered around those two subjects. I loved the story telling aspect of creating whimsy, imagination, and fun in photography while letting kids just be kids throughout it. No perfectionism, no starchy posing or overbearing direction. After a couple styled shoots of my own, I realized I had a perspective to bring to the photography world, loving your clients more than your business.
Kari: You are so courageous to strike out on your own. Was it hard to get started? What were some valuable lessons you've learned along the way?
Laura: YES! It was such a scary leap to finally cut the chord of a regularly scheduled paycheck and clock in-clock out world! The roots of my business started when I would take photos of my youngest brother and sister who were brought into our lives from Ethiopia 8 years ago. I mainly played around with my mom's old point and shoot camera and someone saw an image they loved and asked me to shoot their wedding. Jaw dropped. WHAT?! It took that someone taking a chance on me for me to think of myself in that light and that wedding ended being my first paid photography job. It wasn't until I moved to Texas in 2010, was a manager for the women's store Anthropologie for 4 years, and built a client base from some of my closest customers before my photography work was full time and lucrative. I never thought of working retail to fund my passion and new business as a lack of drive believe in myself, it was a wonderful way to test the waters of running my own business, as well as an awesome way to have an organic outreach to gain more client relationships!
Kari: You've had your work featured in many publications, including Cupcake Magazine and Austin Monthly. What was it like to see your images in this way? What were some other triumphs you've had that made you give yourself a big pat on the back?
Laura: Oh my goodness, it's always a surprise and mini celebration when your photos get picked or featured! I never in a million years thought I would have the change to be published so it's still quite dreamy when it happens and you see it in something you know so many people are viewing. As far as triumphs or other little celebrations, honestly the biggest pats on the back come from when a large group of friends are now repeat clients due to one of them referring me to their circle of friends. That is incredible to me and a huge compliments when a friend loved their experience so much that they would encourage their friend to invest in my work.
Kari: What is the most interesting thing you've photographed?
Laura: The most interesting things I have photographed...There are so many things! I would have to say that a styled bridal shoot that I did for a local magazine in Texas with two horses at a dining table with the bride would be on the top of my list! That or a local PR firm's Halloween party that was "Alice in Wonderland" themed. The entire house was transformed into difference scenes from the fairytale. It was magical!
Kari: I'm trying to be better about printing out pictures to place around my house instead of always just keeping them in digital form. How do you like to display and organize your photos?
Laura: I am right there with you and from what I hear, many others are as well including the majority of my own clients! Having digital copies of your images is always a wonderful idea and keeps them safe, and in one place, but sometimes they never leave that USB drive or display anywhere beyond Facebook! Every 6 months I have started to order my own prints in larger batches from the previous months of the year. This way I'm not feeling like I'm losing memories buried deep in a hard drive that I eventually forget about, and if the prints end up on the wall, wonderful, if they end up on the fridge, on my work desk or by my bed, totally fine as well. I LOVE a wonderful photo collage wall. Mine at home is framed with the most simple of white Ikea frames and I love how it showcases the color and subject of each image!
Kari: What is the biggest piece of advice you'd give someone starting their own business?
Laura: Wonderful question! I think across the board when you are working with, selling to, or interacting with people at all in your life of work, there needs to be an aspect of what I call "loving on" your client. It is easy especially in a creative field to assume that what you are heading out to "sell" is exactly what people will immediately love, accept, and purchase in it's original form, when in reality the client's response will help you fine tune what they are actually looking for from you, and that's not a bad thing! "Loving" on your client means to authentically hear what they are looking for, to have a genuine and open communication together in the planning process, and to invest in how to make their experience and final outcome truly fit what they sought you out for. I look at my business as a continuing relationship and would never want that emotional connection between myself and my client to not be the pillar of where the love and intention for my work comes from.
THANK YOU, LAURA, FOR THE WONDERFUL ANSWERS AND BEAUTIFUL IMAGES!!
Check out Laura's sites for more information and breathtaking images!
Note: I did receive a free sitting session, but all reviews and opinions are my own